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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it really does sound like you're in an awfully bad place, but I do get what other posters are saying about excuses. Every time someone has given you an suggestion, you immediately knock it down with why it can't happen. Now I'll give you that it's not just as easy as getting a divorce, moving out and finding a support group. But at least there are things in there you might try, at least part way. It sounds like you feel like the world keeps shitting on you and you've just given up hope. You are at the very bottom and no one is going to reach in and drag you up. You have to start that climb yourself. One step at a time. So maybe serving your husband with divorce papers tomorrow isn't the answer. But is there something you can do now so that you CAN divorce him in a year?  I hear that you have a job, enough money to pay for therapy and a $2,500 mortgage. That's more than a lot of people have on the financial front. Obviously simplifying but you could definitely find an apartment for half that if you left your husband.

I guess I'm just saying - stop telling us what you can't do and tell us what little step you can make toward our suggestions. If you're not willing to do that, then no one can help. [/quote]

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