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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I've never really liked "don't whine" or "no whining" -- it's like "stop crying." Have you ever been upset and crying, and someone tells you to "stop crying"? It does not work,[/quote]

baloney.  It works.  Whining that you want a cookie NOW is entirely different motivation than bawling because you fell off the swing.[/quote]

I agree with poster that if a child is genuinely upset (and OP says her daughter was tired, late in day) and can't keep it together, it's OK to cry to express frustration, anger, etc. Don't ADULTS do this too? It's a normal healthy reaction to feeling upset. I would not call your DD a "baby" for these kinds of things.

I would say there is a difference with the "mock cry"/tantrum that is designed to get their way, like in a grocery store when you don't give in. In this case, I would expres sympathy "It is frustrating. You feel frustrated" and then ignore, but I could see telling a kid "I can't understand you right now. Please use your big girl voice so we can hear you."[/quote]

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