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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let me guess: you never want sex with him.. and you aren't yet divorced. That can only mean **of course** he has an AP!  That is the one thing that has been holding together your marriage. Why is this suddenly an issue?[/quote]

Stop, @sshole.  You have zero idea.  Plenty of good marriages have sex and these abusuve @sahiles still have entitlement affairs.  It’s devestating.  They do it when you have a dying parent in the hospital.  Plenty of monsters masquerading as decent people out there.  And the whores they cheat with are no better.  Sneaking around like rats.[/quote]

This guy gets on every cheating thread and starts ranting about sexless marriages. My ex cheated when our sex life was good and when it was bad. He just cheated all the time, because he's a narcissistic d!ck.[/quote]

+1.  My ex cheated on me. I literally never said no to sex with him.   We were having sex 3+x a week while he was emailing his AP about how his relationship with me was broken.  When I found out he begged me to stay with him.

[b]Cheating is not about sex just like rape is not about sex.[/b] [/quote]

I could not express this any better.  My husband was constantly leaving me 'love' post-it notes and planning surprise dinners and trips and giving me massages.  Huge blowout surprise parties.  He was incredibly helpful with my family when there was an ill parent or nephew, etc., very caring.  We always had a great sex life 3+ times per week 20+ years in.

Yet he went behind my back all of this time with a married woman from the Internet (same sad story many on here have).  No way to reconcile that man with the man at home.  This is the hardest part to accept.  What's real?  He claims he compartmentalized and drank just to be with her and it was an escape. He was dissatisfied with himself and the big dreams he had.  This was a very successful guy in every conceivable way--so it's mind boggling.  He needed some middle-aged SAHM cheating woman to take his mind off of his internal issues.

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