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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I currently have 2 kids, 6 and 3. They're close, and I'm wondering about a third.\ Pros: I always have wanted a large family My 6 year old DD wants another sister We have the room and money for another Cons: I don't see any, which is why I'm asking for help [/quote] Perhaps I've spent too much time in therapy, but if it's all pros and no cons, you would just be doing it. So - why aren't you? There's a con that you know and either aren't saying out loud or aren't being honest with yourself about. But you know what it is, if you think about it. My suspicion: "I don't want to - I've done this twice already, I know the reality, and doing it again does not sound fun." And if that's the case, don't do it! But start by being honest with yourself. "I changed my mind" is a perfectly valid reason. You don't need more than that. [/quote]
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