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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the comments, for better or worse. In response to several posters, yes I have been educated about the issue. My husbands father suffers from the illness and I knew about it before we got married. I've read several books and talked to mental health professionals about the likelihood of it getting passed down to my children. Thanks for your concern though as I'm sure that's where your comments came from. We do have contact with my husbands father and although he lives several states away have made an effort for him to get to know my children. It's not like I'm trying to keep anything "ugly" or "different" away from them. My concern about my BIL comes from several places. 1) He's gotten into violent altercations with others, 2) his condition is worsening, 3) he tried to burn down his home at the risk of his neighbors, and most importantly 4) he mentioned once to my husband that he is a bad person and when listing the reasons mentioned he was a child molester. I'm not saying I believe he is but what if one of his voices (he has admitted to having them) compels him. My husband understandably has baggage from dealing with his dad and does not enter the situation with a clear lens. That's where I come in. Thanks again for your responses. [/quote] Yikes. This was really not evident in your initial post--my previous comments were based on not seeing how he could be a danger to your children. It sounds like you definitely have cause for concern, and I wouldn't want my kids around someone in those circumstances. I really hope things get better for your BIL and the rest of your family.[/quote]
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