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Reply to "Hey guys how much help around the house are you??"
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[quote=Anonymous]My husband does: things that need to be done as he notices them (if a dish is dirty he washes it or loads it in the dishwasher, if the laundry is piling he starts a load, if the kids are asking for a snack he gets it, etc.) but he doesn’t plan ahead like I have to do. That’s the mental load. I’m a SAHM so I get that is what I signed up for (knowing when kids need new clothes/shoes/school supplies, etc and ordering them, knowing when we’re almost out of toilet paper, scheduling and taking kids to appts, scheduling home maintenance) I also do all grocery shopping, meal planning/cooking/prep, most laundry and dishes, almost all general household cleaning and tidying. My husband does a good bit of childcare in his off hours bc he wants to be an involved parent. So a big part of why I do more of the household stuff is to give him more time w the kids.[/quote]
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