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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you can only speak about your  specific husband. It's aslo about what you choose to priortizze.  My husband is an equal partner in terms of caring for the kids and house, and he understands just as well as I do that sometimes  plans for a romantic evening get interupted or put on hold. That said if a choice to use energy for sex or laundry we 9/10 prioritze  the sex.[/quote]
For some, the reality that they didn't choose a husband very wisely is harsh. So they fall back on the belief that all men are like their husbands. It's sad, but true.[/quote]

I think it's  a couple things. Men. and women are socialized differently, and our society still heavily leans toward the women being responsible for childcare , household upkeep,  etc. I mean I knew several men whose mom's cooked their meals and cleaned their house until they got married.

I also think a lot of people rush into marriage, this is especially true for women because again we're socialized differently and told we are worthless without a  husband and kids, so if we hit about 30 , many of us start panicking about being the cat lady, and pick a guy that's good enough, to check off those boxes, but aren't really into him, so it becomes really easy to put energy into everything else but the physical side of the relationship.[/quote]

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