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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you can only speak about your  specific husband. It's aslo about what you choose to prioritize.  My husband is an equal partner in terms of caring for the kids and house, and he understands just as well as I do that sometimes  plans for a romantic evening get interupted or put on hold. That said if a choice to use energy for sex or laundry we 9/10 prioritze  the sex.[/quote]
For some, the reality that they didn't choose a husband very wisely is harsh. So they fall back on the belief that all men are like their husbands. It's sad, but true.[/quote]

Stop with the blame-casting!

For one, even today everything in our culture teaches women that there is one magic person they will fall in love with and that is who they should marry.

Nobody advises a woman to take very deliberate efforts to see how BF is when it comes to chores. And what they do and profess yo want in the days leading up to marriage is often far different from how they behave after.  When we were dating BF was all about me having a career. As soon as baby #1 was botn, he started asking if I wanted to SAH (uh, no, I told you that already) and refused to do any parenting. I couldn’t have predicted that based on past experience.

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