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[quote=Anonymous]I did, not as the ONLY factor but a main factor.

I am an only and feel a deep sense of loss that I have no sibling. And growing up, I hated having my parents full attention. Nothing went unnoticed and there was so much pressure to be perfect, because I was basically all they had and they weren't going to be embarrassed by a failure.

The other factor was my first is a boy and I wanted to try for a girl, of course knowing I could actutally end up with two boys but maybe that would be ok too.

Only a year in, but it's been great. I did in fact get my girl and I'm totally obsessed with her. There's been typical sibling jealousy but it has been wonderful for my first social skills wise. As an only, I felt my social skills suffered so I always prioritized socialization for my son but he was still really timid and used to let other kids walk all over him. Since she arrived, he has really come out of his shell and become much more assertive. Like a totally different kid and I'm not the only one to notice. [/quote]

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