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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This doesn’t sound healthy.[/quote]

Nope/ I'd leave him.  You have discussed how this doesn't work for you. He refuses to change. It will not get better than it is now. This is the honeymoon phase. Take it or leave it. I would leave it.[/quote]

OP, you yourself use the word "control" about his behavior. It won't get better; he will start doing other little things to control you, to see how far he can push it with you. He's also controlling with the sexual teasing and enjoys denying you sex (what does he do about the fact he's aroused too, huh? Make you watch him and get even more frustrated? How is that OK?) Unless you really do get off on some thrill of being controlled, leave him. Have some self-respect.

Oh, and the "spoiling" and "catering to [your] needs" you describe -- those can be a control freak's way of pulling you in closer and making you so convinced he's good to you. So that the control he wants feels like something you owe him, because he's soooo sweet and spoils you so it must be real love...right?

I really hope you don't live together. I fear you do. I hope you can leave him quickly because I suspect that your spoiling, catering lover might turn very nasty you break up. He would have to find someone else to control if you assert yourself.

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