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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm soon to be divorced, and I wonder about all this too.  I dont know anyone who uses protection for oral!  And yet it's the only way to be safe.  But it also takes all the fun and sensation out of it, so then what's the point.  I'm so confused.  I feel like the "get tested every week!  wear condoms!" people have never actually had casual sex? [/quote]

how old are you and for how long were you married?

I use condoms for oral. Flavored. Why wouldnt I? I do it to help protect against STDs. [/quote]

I'm 39, been with my soon to be ex since we were teens, only been with one other guy, so never had to deal with this...AND I'M TERRIFIED.

But as the PPs have expressed, what is even the fun of having sex if you can't feel it and you have to pause to set up your vaginal saran wrap tent?  part of the experience is the taste and smell.

I'm not arguing that there's any other way to be safe!  Don't get me wrong. I just don't think any of the people I know who date tons and have sex on date 3-5 are using condoms for oral or getting STD tests.  Hence my confusion and apprehension.[/quote]

Do you care if you get an STD?[/quote]

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