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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] .... No one is owed sex, [b]just like no one is owed anything[/b] [/quote]

For example, a sexless wife is not owed his fidelity. [/quote]

I strongly object to you deleting the rest of my post to try to make a point I said explicitly I was not making. If you'd like to respond to what I said, respond to it, but not not self select a line and make it seem like I said something I didn't. You could have made your point without distorting the meaning of mine.[/quote]

Sorry PP your post was excellent and I agree with almost everything you said. However it was soooo long and my point is for the contingent who scream (rightfully so) “nobody is entitled to sex” needs to also recognize the corollary “nobody is entitled to fidelity”.[/quote]

I disagree with you. When you get married you don't say I vow to always have sex with you, but you do make a vow to fidelity. I would say no one is entitled to have someone stay married to them if they are not meeting their end of the bargain. But as we learn in Kindergarten, two wrongs do not make a right. [/quote]

Oh you want to pull out the vows? They are bi directional. To have and to hold. Forsake all others.    It means I won’t have sex with anybody except you (... because we will be having sex with each other).  And once you stop meeting your partner’s sexual needs, there can be no continued expectation of them forsaking all others. It’s not a case of two wrongs making a right, there just is no other possible way to stay married except to have sex elsewhere. Like you said, if that bothers you, simply divorce.
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