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[quote=Anonymous]OP my kids are the same ages and these sound like pretty unremarkable issues.

I think at this age they just need constant reminders. I’ve found a morning checklist with sticker chart helpful. My oldest loves getting to check off that he’s had breakfast, brushed his teeth, etc.

They know the rules are shoes must be placed on the shoe rack by the front door, dishes taken to the sink after eating, and stuff like that, but they still forget a lot. Instead of punishing, I just remind them over.and.over and then make sure to praise how very helpful they are when they do remember to do these things. I think deep down they want to be helpful so I’m trying to harness that.

Also, you’re going to have to deal with toys on the main level. My oldest will sometimes go to the basement playroom alone if he wants to get away from our younger one. But for the most part they want to be on the same level as us. We have a small house, but still manage to find some space for toy storage on each level. We do try to keep toys on the level they belong on so we’re not constantly looking for things or having to schlep toys up and down stairs.

The helmet thing, I just keep explaining to my kids as a safety issue. They know it’s not a mean rule. I just don’t want them to get hurt.

These ages can be frustrating, but they won’t be little forever. Just keep it up with the reminders, positive reinforcement, and  know you’ll miss these days when they’re teenagers![/quote]

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