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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's awful if you sit him down and say you're unattracted to him. That being said, if this is gonna end up leading to resentment and then divorce, then it's better to give him the option now. I would start by maybe doing a family challenge of no sodas in the house or something. Then if you're always stocked on beer, don't be. That alone can put on a LOT of weight. Added weight can cause depression and make it easier to gain more weight, and sometimes, when you feel bad physically, you'll feel bad about yourself and stop realizing that you need care. I'm a self-saboteur. I realized it in one of my relationships, if I'm loved and things are good, I have to push the limits so the other person leaves, maybe he is too?I've never met a fat person who became fat because they love food so much. There's always an underlying issue. [/quote]
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