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[quote=Anonymous]You seem to have an active fantasy about what an alternate life story would have looked like, and that you somehow ruined that story. From everything you have described about this man, he was not ready for a family, not ready to settle down. You aren’t in touch with him at all, and getting in touch would do nothing to improve honesty and intimacy with people in your life- because he’s not in it! Quite frankly, you did him a favor by letting him go pursue his vision for his life without saddling him with a family at an early age. You were supposed to be on the pill plus you were using condoms, so this was not a case of mutual carelessness. If you do decide to contact him, make sure you don’t skip that part. When you got pregnant he thought you were on the pill but you weren’t. He even went the extra mile with a condom but that somehow failed as well(?) He doesn’t need this unnecessary guilt trip in his life.[/quote]
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