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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, there is only one constant in all your failed and/or unhealthy relationships. That is what needs to be worked on in therapy. [/quote] For the first marriage it looks like my depression and bad communication about our expected roles, my failure to take leadership of some important family matters, along with some personal issues the ex was working through at the same time. All of that combined to make therapy a mess. We should have separated and worked on ourselves and then worked together. For the second marriage I have again failed to take leadership (different reasons - failing health and a struggle to maintain my job) combined with a wife who is very domineering. And my depression is worse because (i) I see what I lost with wife #1, (ii) I see the destruction it wrought on so many people, and (iii) now I feel trapped. Common denominator: me. I should be single. [/quote]
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