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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you need to get approval from your wife? Can you not have a conversation and say whatever you like without her permission?[/quote]

Speaking of which I had my first call with my kids in over a year a few weeks ago.  Wife INSISTED it be on speaker so she could hear.  (Incidentally kids are thrilled to reconnect and we text multiple times a day and now talk every few days.)

Everything comes down to my lack of judgment (which I concede based on illness/cognitive issues) but that seems to excuse infantilizing me in every situation. In other words, you have bad judgment here and here, so everything needs to be vetted first.

Wife also demanded a “truthful” retelling in full of my convo with ex MIL, which we have not had yet.

I hate my life but for now am trapped.

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It sounds like you’re married to my step-mother.  She’s jealous and insecure and wants to pretend that my father’s life started when he met her (even though she, too, had been married and is more than happy to incorporate her past life into their new life).  Be a better person than my dad - don’t let her ruin your relationships.  My dad is a shell of a human now.  It’s very sad.[/quote]

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