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[quote=Anonymous]The fact that people jump right to sexual abuse is crazy. 5 year olds think butts are funny. Butts have holes in them. Kids try to stick things -- especially fingers -- in holes. If he tried to stick his penis in your son's butt, I would obviously be very concerned. But a finger? And in front of a bunch of people as part of a game? That is not indicative of sexual abuse. I would follow your son's lead. If he's happy to play with the kid again, let him. Just supervise. If he's not, don't push it until he is. Don't traumatize your kid, but make it clear you're taking his upset/concern seriously. If this was a one time event where parents jumped in immediately... the chances are your son will forget about it by next week unless you make it a huge deal.[/quote]
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