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[quote=Anonymous]OP, do not budge on the ILs. For many of the reasons already posted. Do not budge on the car-seat, either. That actually tells us more about your DH than anything. Right now, you have a newborn and a preschooler, in the midst of a pandemic, so you need to focus on them and your own self-care. But you also need to begin planning. This marriage is not sustainable for the long-haul, and you need to begin thinking about that, planning for that, and preparing for that financially. Personally, I would worry about X-DH having your kids on his own in the future. Begin to document his behavior, his outlier tendencies, his refusal to follow mandated safety standards for children. Carefully document all that. I’m sorry, but you’re going to need this in the future. But for now, just stay safe and begin planning. Good luck.[/quote]
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