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[quote=Anonymous][/quote][/quote] No. The kids should all have their own spaces but preferably under one roof. I am fine with him maintaining ownership of his house if that’s what he feels is best but in that case I would want to work on making the house work for all of us OR renting out his house and moving into mine. And yes if we were to go from 2 houses to 1 then both of us would have to give up some stuff! He has a lot more stuff than I do and deep attachments to his things so this is what I don’t think will change once kids are no longer in the picture. We did discuss the arrangements before getting married and I was under the impression that we would figure out how to get under one roof. Of course there should have been a more concrete plan. I get that!!! [/quote] So...it is logistically impractical to move with your DCs into his house? Is it even the same school district? While you are saying your goal is to live under one roof and your fine with him keeping his house. You want him to move out of his house and not have step-DCs be able to go back from college to their childhood home. I can see why it doesn’t want to move. [/quote]
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