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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. To answer the questions about the kids being in the picture I don’t think that is the issue. They are nearly grown and also they all get along great. This issue is more about his long-term financial goals and not wanting to have to make any big changes, such as giving up any of this things (he has a lot of stuff, a lot of attachments to objects). This is what I don’t see changing - regardless of kids in the picture. [/quote] Why should he have to give up his things? None of this really makes sense to me. You never lived together and you didn't discuss living arrangements but you just got married? You thought he woudl change who he was after you married him? I don't understand why you got married. Who benefited from that? What was the reason you or he wanted to get married? You want to move your kids into his house? He still has young adult children coming home from college but you want him to stop that and have their spaces in his house given to your children? You want him to get rid of his things and to bring your things from your house to his? I don't get anything about this relationship![/quote][/quote]
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