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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP has posted this story at least once before. [/quote]

Yes, I recognize it too but that reflects how painful these situations are. They can literally haunt you.

Unfortunately, all you can do is work through the feelings that come up around the loss of this friendship and make peace with the unknowns, and move forward. I’m sorry, OP. If her disappearance was in sync with the beginning of her new relationship, it is likely connected in some way. [/quote]

I recognize this too.  This exact story has been a thread before, and OP wanted to know whether to keep working with the ex-friend and people said no.

Why is OP back with same story?[/quote]

Because OP did not like the answers she got last time - hoping this time people will say yes. It's a hurtful situation but OP needs to just leave it alone.

I have an ex-friend who always tells people I ended our 15-year friendship for no reason and she "doesn't know what she did". It's not true - in the days before I deleted her number and blocked her on social media, we had it out via phone and text (she lives in another state). I told her everything she did that hurt our friendship. Her response was to basically gaslight me and tell me that I was either overreacting or the things I said happened didn't happen at all. I said, in this case we cannot move forward and I don't want to continue this friendship.

To this day a decade later, she insists to mutual friends that this conversation didn't happen and I ghosted her. [/quote]

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