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[quote=Anonymous]My parents divorced when I was 25 and my brother was 29.  We were THRILLED.   I can remember them fighting as a little kid, but it was their complete ambivalence/undertones of animosity to each other when I was a teenager that really bothered us.  They didn't fight anymore, but you could tell they would be fine if the other just ceased to exist.  Vacations were strained and forced.  Holidays always had an undertone to them where you just always felt something was "off".

My parents are good people.  I know they tried so hard.to act like they got along and that they were happy.  They tried so hard not to fight in front of us (which probably led to that undertone of animosity).  I used to stress out having them meet new friends or boyfriends.

They are like different people now.   The divorce was amicable and fairly easy.  We are able to have whole family get togethers without that unsettling undertone.  Both my parents are SO much happier.

Obviously my experience is my own and I can't speak for others.  But i so wish they had divorced when I was a kid [/quote]

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