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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is my marriage. I don't love my husband and sometimes I don't respect him. Rather than cheat, I just don't have that part of me anymore. I don't know why he stays. I am ready to move on, but haven't had the will to discuss it. Actually, he kind of scares me as to how nasty he can be. I would prefer an amicable divorce, just not sure if that could even happen.[/quote]

Same.  I’ve been taken advantage of (financially, childcare) yelled at in front of my children for years (finally slowed down to a couple times a month), stonewalled, neglected, and I just don’t believe I could should have sex with my husband.  I HAVE taken steps and suggested why legal separation or divorce is obviously the right choice.  He is holding his dysfunction and anger over me essentially, doesn’t want to let go peacefully and with respect and positive co-parenting.  He has threatened that things will be worse with divorce (as it relates to the children).  He’s just sticking his head in the sand and not addressing next steps at all.  We’re living like coparents and nothing but.  I have set up personal space and love my life as fully as I can while serving out this Jim sentence until I don’t know when.  I just this morning was torn up crying over the decision to serve him with a divorce or try to lead a quiet meager existence in which I can be with and influence and help my children daily. I’m pretty sad (starting antidepressants this week) and also very strong and positive for the children, though the cracks may be starting to affect me.

Sexless is the ONLY way this marriage is continuing.  [/quote]

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