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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG! OP, why would you hire a nanny without either the language or intelligence to understand what is going on?! [/quote] OP heee. Because she’s a wonderful caretaker who is a kind soul who [b]has loved our children unconditionally for 6 years[/b]. In general our differences in politics or the way we see the world don’t make a difference and in no way impact h[b]er ability to be responsible and take care of kids[/b]. However,[b] she doesn’t have a high school degree[/b] and comes from rural America and has a different understanding of the world. [/quote] So in the SIX YEARS that you have known her and she has been so wonderful to your kids, you couldn't help her seek out and obtain a GED? Or did you try, but she was completely incapable? Either you, OP, are a terrible person to not help and encourage her, or you are a terrible parent for putting someone that incompetent in charge of your kids. [/quote] Op here. Ummmm [b]we’ve offered her tons of opportunities to further her education and she’s not interested.[/b] Not sure how this is relevant to my question. The anger and close mindedness about how people think on here is insane. I can still love my nanny as a person and trust her and not agree with her life choices if they aren’t dangerous to herself, my family, or society. [b]She’s on her way to church right now and then will eat at her buffet place as always[/b]. No news (I.e. Fox) will tell her otherwise right now. Thank you everyone for the non snide responses. We are all in this together. Let’s practice kindness. [/quote] And again, you are a terrible parent to put someone this incompetent in charge of your children.[/quote]
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