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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]going fishing for example, Op?[/quote] yep :) but i am trying to be balanced. i can't just insist that my husband can't do xyz with our child, i want to have a framework for how we make decisions when we disagree that's not[b] "i'm mom and i won't allow this b/c i'm the mom[/b]"[/quote] This is how I handle it. I never really thought about it in this way, but yes. DH would ask me if something like this was ok, and I would say yes or no. I wouldn’t ask him. I would just do it. [/quote] haha sadly dh has not ceded all control to me (i say that tongue in cheek) and i don't want to turn things into a power struggle of me trying to insist i get my way just because b/c then it seems a bit hypocritical to expect him to be an equally engaged parent while not having an equal vote[/quote]
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