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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to switch with your husband more often and have him stay with the baby and you go with the older children.

This will be the normal for the foreseeable future. [/quote]

My kids are 11(DS), 9(DS), and 3(DD).  Dad has been as much of a default parent for DD as I am.  In fact, he did more of the staying home with the baby than I did when we were splitting duties in the first couple of years.

It does get a little easier to bring the youngest along once they're closer to PK age.  I remember taking the boys to practice when DD was a new toddler was especially frustrating, but she's now to the point where she brings her Paw Patrol toys and play by herself if she's a tag along or I can take her to a playground nearby and come back for DS at the end of practice.  The boys are also in the age now where "playdates" with friends are sans parents.  Fortunately they both have friends in the neighborhood, so I can just send them over.

One thing I do feel bad about is DD doesn't often get the activities that are just for her .. like the little kid play gyms and playgrounds that I used to take the boys to when they were her age.

One thing I think I've done well is get all of the kids used to going and doing routine (i.e. boring) things together like grocery shopping.  It's hard in the early toddler age range, but getting everyone used to the rules and expectations makes things easier later on and the older kids also get used to being helpful with the youngest.
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