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[quote=Anonymous]I have two friends. One male and one female.

The female had a dream job set in mind but it takes a lot of work hours and commitment to get there.  She got there at 37 but put off having kids until her work hours were more normal she could 1.  Take time off for Maternity leave and 2.  Actually be around.  She's 39 now and has been unable to get pregnant.   She's trying one last round of meds to hopefully get some numbers up that they suspect are the reason. It hasn't been easy for her.  She sometimes has a lot of regrets and she's lost some friendships because she's trying to protect herself from the hurt of seeing others with a family.

My guys friend had a similar story except he never got to that dream career level because he burned out working the hours he did.  That industry has a huge burnout rate.  His wife wanted to start trying right after he burned out but he wasnt mentally ready.   He has a great job now with extremely family friendly hours and flexibility. But they haven't had any luck with a pregnancy and his wife is against most alternatives.   He has big regrets [/quote]

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