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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP the issue is that in this type of marriage your DH will eventually cheat and then probably leave you. I don’t think have as much tolerance for a dead marriage. Will you regret staying so long after he he initiates a divorce. Could you all agree to an open marriage.[/quote]

A lot of people here disagree with this but I think if you truly feel like you need to stay for a few more years until you can get things in order and enough confidence to get out of this, this could be a good way to help both of you be at least more pleasant towards each other. You'll both have other things to look forward to that could put you in better moods. If you could truly support him stepping out and also try it yourself, it sounds like you really have nothing to lose at this point.

That said, I've read that the only way to make an open marriage work is to be sure you're in a strong marriage first. I have a hard time wrapping my head around the idea that someone would want to find another lover because they are oh so happy and blissful in their marriage and what better way to further increase that happiness and bliss and draw you even closer???? Why fix what isn't broken? More people means more complications in my book.

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