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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He fought dirty during the separation/divorce in order to win the best possible settlement/position for himself possible.

Now that everything has been settled during the divorce and he is no longer fighting to protect his own self interests, he feels no need to be contentious with you.  And he is not going to put his energy into fighting you.  The divorce terms are laid out, child custody has been determined and that's good enough.

He's being "friendly" because you share a child together. If it wasn't for your son, he probably would just go his separate way and be done with you and that phase of his life.  And that's pretty much it in a nutshell. He basically DGAF, which you already knew.[/quote]

OP here - I agree with most of this except for the part about him fighting dirty in order to win the best possible settlement/position. He actually did the exact opposite of what he should've done throughout our divorce. I believe having an affair partner, moving in with her and then introducing your child to her is on the Top 10 list of things not to do. Not providing support of any kind and failing to pay mortgage that is in your name are also high on the list. He paid dearly for those choices in the end.

You're right he DGAF which is why I wish he would continue that same energy and stop texting me as if we are cool buddies now. We are not. He should know that and continue on with his life. [/quote]

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