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[quote=Anonymous]OP I want to reiterate the advice from others that you need to start by asking for way more. With this personality type he will need to feel like he beat you down and “won,” so if you start by asking for less money and primary custody he will fight for 50/50 custody and the bare minimum on money. You need to start by asking for full physical custody and half of everything plus generous child support so that he can “beat you” into agreeing to only primary custody and less money and moderate child support. It is about him needing to feel that he tricked you into giving up something you wanted. If you let on that you are fine taking less then he will keep fighting. He wants to humiliate and punish you, so play along long enough for him to agree to something reasonable under the guise that you REALLY wanted way more and you are heartbroken to have to agree to less.[/quote]
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