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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is your DH going to be a character witness against her? If so, stay far, far away!

If you want to support her, then inviting for a drop off playdate is totally fine. If she doesn't respond, just give her space.[/quote]

My guess is the dh is going to be character witness for the DH.

Regardless she’s probably feeling (wrongly) betrayed.

You can reach out with offers of support, but I would try to scale back offers of get togethers/play dates.  She’s probably feeling lack of trust all around.  The kids’ friendship probably won’t survive outside of school after the divorce unfortunately.  I’d just let it fade.
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She doesn't want a friendship anymore if she is not responding.  Back off and just maintain the kids through Dad.[/quote]

The kids are at different elementary schools so they don’t see each other at school. We have many mutual kid friends and family in common. I don’t know if anyone knows. I have been staying out of it.

The dad calls and texts DH often. The mom and I barely text. Some mutual friends have tried to get together and she has also been silent so I don’t think she is distancing herself from just me. We recently had a party with a lot of mutual friends and they declined. They were the only ones who didn’t come.[/quote]

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