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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I also went through infertility and multiple losses (I have literally been doing ART continuously since April 2015) and I am dreading my shower but for a different reason. I have sat through so many other ppls showers silently wishing for my own children. Now I am pregnant and I want to celebrate it but I want it to be just how I want it. Unfortunately I have a very close friend who, for lack of a better word, is a reverse snob. She purposefully will go out and buy the cheapest thing available and not for lack of funds but for making the point. She has been very supportive through my journey and has become the host to my shower (she got together with my mom and now how does one say no). I love my friend; i just wish I could go out and decorate it how I want, have the invitations I want and buy food that I want to have and the cake that I want. Example: so far I know she is doing evite bc its free and wont do paperless post and she is getting a cake from the supermarket. I know this sounds spoiled but after all that heartache I wish I could have input. [/quote] Where is your mom in all of this? My invite is on Paperless Post and it's free.[/quote]
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