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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re either all in or you’re out. If you really love him, you will pool your retirement and find a way to make sure his kids get to college. If you can’t do those things, you have no business professing your love and being married.[/quote] Oh no, she is not responsible for putting his kids through college. That's on her DH and the kids' mother.[/quote] This is a blended family and OP says the kids get along well. This will not last if OP's kids have their choice of colleges while her DH's kids get community college and maybe on to a state four year. It never bodes well when children sharing the same home are treated so disparately.[/quote]
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