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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I made 5x what my wife made for our entire marriage. Are you suggesting that I shouldn’t “subsidize” her retirement? [/quote] Did she have a couple of kids with someone else?[/quote] Np here. What difference would that make? By the time retirement rolls around, presumably any kids are self-sufficient adults. Op’s dh will have some money in his name, op will have money in her name. I can’t imagine being married and thinking of our retirement funds as seperate assets. That just doesn’t make sense, even when it’s a second marriage with a blended family. [/quote] Correct. OP is selfish. She should not have married.[/quote]
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