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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a 35 y/o female. Married the wrong person 5 years ago, am seriously considering divorce. I make very good money for the first time (moving around for DH’s jobs held me back previously). I wanted kids but DH wasn’t ready until recently and I have had 3 miscarriages since January.

Current state of mind: Tired of doing everything for the household, tired of compromising and not getting support around things that are important to me, feeling like I dodged a bullet with miscarriages due to bad marriage. Sincerely do not care if I am single for the rest of my life, only care about my own financial security after having erroneously put it in someone else’s hands in the past. Love my job and feel hopeful about enjoying life on my terms.

What do you think will happen to me in 5 years? Happily single? Lonely and regretful? Reattached? [/quote]

I think you'll be having a torrid affair with me, because while the divorce took an enormous toll on you emotionally, the craving for physical intimacy never wavered.

You were very up front about what you were looking for, and I was totally on board. The sex was the most intense I'd ever experienced. It was like there was literally another version of you that had been imprisoned inside and was finally set free.

It took less than a month for the feels to show up. I'm not sure how I knew. Maybe it was something in the way we kissed goodbye, or the way you looked at me while I held you. When I finally let it slip - "I love you" - and your eyes filled, I knew it was the beginning of the end. I couldn't leave, and you deserved a shot at the life you'd always wanted - the loving husband, the kids, the happily ever after.

It's been ten nearly years, and I still think about you every day. You look more beautiful than ever, and your boys are growing up so fast. It looks like he's good to you, and that you're finally happy. But I do hope you still think of me once in a while.

Have a good life.[/quote]
Same here. Word for word - except 10 years later I was divorced anyway. [/quote]

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