Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 13:53     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
Ok I’ll play. You’ll initiate the divorce in 5 months and it will be finalized a year after that. You’ll meet your future husband at 38 and marry at 39. You’ll see a fertility specialist named Dr. Abbasi who will diagnose you with immune issues and blood clotting factor. You will get pregnant by IVF just before your 41st birthday. Your husband will help around the house and be a good father.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 08:46     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a 35 y/o female. Married the wrong person 5 years ago, am seriously considering divorce. I make very good money for the first time (moving around for DH’s jobs held me back previously). I wanted kids but DH wasn’t ready until recently and I have had 3 miscarriages since January.

Current state of mind: Tired of doing everything for the household, tired of compromising and not getting support around things that are important to me, feeling like I dodged a bullet with miscarriages due to bad marriage. Sincerely do not care if I am single for the rest of my life, only care about my own financial security after having erroneously put it in someone else’s hands in the past. Love my job and feel hopeful about enjoying life on my terms.

What do you think will happen to me in 5 years? Happily single? Lonely and regretful? Reattached?


I think you'll be having a torrid affair with me, because while the divorce took an enormous toll on you emotionally, the craving for physical intimacy never wavered.

You were very up front about what you were looking for, and I was totally on board. The sex was the most intense I'd ever experienced. It was like there was literally another version of you that had been imprisoned inside and was finally set free.

It took less than a month for the feels to show up. I'm not sure how I knew. Maybe it was something in the way we kissed goodbye, or the way you looked at me while I held you. When I finally let it slip - "I love you" - and your eyes filled, I knew it was the beginning of the end. I couldn't leave, and you deserved a shot at the life you'd always wanted - the loving husband, the kids, the happily ever after.

It's been ten nearly years, and I still think about you every day. You look more beautiful than ever, and your boys are growing up so fast. It looks like he's good to you, and that you're finally happy. But I do hope you still think of me once in a while.

Have a good life.


Ha ha, best DCUM answer ever, and I have been the man in that situation exactly!!
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 07:54     Subject: Re:Predict what will happen to me!
You will continue to fail to recognize your own role in the failure of the relationship and assume the problems are always the fault of the other person (itself your major personality flaw). You will have a string of initially satisfying but ultimately doomed relationships. You will purchase cats and learn to do pottery.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 07:28     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
You'll continue to make bad decisions
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 07:13     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
You could be dead tomorrow forget about 5 years from now. Is this current state of your life how you want your story to end? If not go out and make the life you want.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 07:06     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a 35 y/o female. Married the wrong person 5 years ago, am seriously considering divorce. I make very good money for the first time (moving around for DH’s jobs held me back previously). I wanted kids but DH wasn’t ready until recently and I have had 3 miscarriages since January.

Current state of mind: Tired of doing everything for the household, tired of compromising and not getting support around things that are important to me, feeling like I dodged a bullet with miscarriages due to bad marriage. Sincerely do not care if I am single for the rest of my life, only care about my own financial security after having erroneously put it in someone else’s hands in the past. Love my job and feel hopeful about enjoying life on my terms.

What do you think will happen to me in 5 years? Happily single? Lonely and regretful? Reattached?


I think you'll be having a torrid affair with me, because while the divorce took an enormous toll on you emotionally, the craving for physical intimacy never wavered.

You were very up front about what you were looking for, and I was totally on board. The sex was the most intense I'd ever experienced. It was like there was literally another version of you that had been imprisoned inside and was finally set free.

It took less than a month for the feels to show up. I'm not sure how I knew. Maybe it was something in the way we kissed goodbye, or the way you looked at me while I held you. When I finally let it slip - "I love you" - and your eyes filled, I knew it was the beginning of the end. I couldn't leave, and you deserved a shot at the life you'd always wanted - the loving husband, the kids, the happily ever after.

It's been ten nearly years, and I still think about you every day. You look more beautiful than ever, and your boys are growing up so fast. It looks like he's good to you, and that you're finally happy. But I do hope you still think of me once in a while.

Have a good life.

Same here. Word for word - except 10 years later I was divorced anyway.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 01:05     Subject: Re:Predict what will happen to me!
You'll be happy and you'll have self respect.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 01:03     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
DH was divorced at 36 and married me at 41. Happily married 9 years now.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2019 00:49     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
Life is so unpredictable who really knows?

But I know one thing....
You need to divorce this man stat because you just are not happy w/him & that much is obvious here.

You may meet Mr. Perfect (or close to it), have three healthy kids and spend the rest of your lives together.

Or you could remain single, and realize that being alone is not as bad as other people may think.
You may travel to great places, discover a hidden passion within or you may find charitable work gratifying.

The future will be what it is meant to be.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2019 21:22     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
Anonymous wrote:when society already prizes male careers over a female careers


Such a load of bullshit. I suppose you still believe there is a wage gap between men and women too?

Amazing how uninformed some adults can be.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2019 15:56     Subject: Predict what will happen to me!
Happily remarried, with money you didn’t lose in a divorce, a smart prenup,and a better body that for your lover delights in.

You’ll be better off than I was - I wish I would have left after the 2nd loss.

Get on BC NOW so you don’t have an oops baby.