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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yep and don't play the victim when you've been the one creating a hostile environment from day one. Don't sit there and be nit picky and snippy and then turn around and cry to your child about how distant their wife/husband is. No one wants to get picked apart and especially not by a MIL/FIL.[/quote] Yes so very much this! I’m floored by how many parents share negative opinions, then are surprised that: (1) their child shares this with his/her spouse (even if they arguably shouldn’t) (2) act shocked at the resulting strained relationship with SIL or DIL (snd often their own adult child, and grandkids) Then instead of apologizing and clearing the air, [b]the parents play victim..[/b] So common. [/quote] +1 Or instead of being the bigger person, the parent bitches to their bridge club about imagined foibles regarding the DIL. The DIL is not stupid. [/quote]
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