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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the responses, very helpful. Agree that more external pressure will only invite possible rebellion. Trying to make sure we praise diligence, effort and honesty/character more than just grades. It dawned on me while reading your responses that if he discovers a passion or interest in a field, that’s a great way to focus on making sure not to sabotage by settling for mediocre grades.

FYI- we work hard, yes we read, and celebrate our professional successes. We both have masters degrees, take the kids to reunions and gatherings with old college friends. Our kids are surrounded by great role models, close family members & friends with fulfilling, successful professional careers in a wide variety of industries. We talk with the kids about current events, politics, sports, funny stories about family and friends, always trying to maintain a close connection- even as they push away during teen years, and often want to be left alone with friends or alone in their rooms at times. 
Phew! Parenting this age is so much harder than I expected- trying to avoid too much pressure/ helicoptering but not allowing them to completely go free range![/quote]

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