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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you tried reconnecting with your DH?  Would you want to?

I know the feeling, somewhat same situation although I didn't love my AP.  I liked her, but it was mostly to fulfill the sex my wife didn't want with me.  We broke it off, eventually but the urge to reconnect hits when my wife shuts down sexually for long periods.

That you wanted to leave your DH is a red flag to me.[/quote]

How long was your affair?[/quote]

1 year. Dh and I got away from each other over the years. There are some fundamental differences we have that we can ignore or accept as they are and move on as a monotonous long term relationship. On the other hand, I felt as I connected with AP at so many levels that made me question my marriage.[/quote]

And I'm sure he's just sitting around twiddling his thumbs abstaining from any and all romantic endeavors just patiently waiting for you to reach out again.  
Hmmm, I wonder why he hasn't reached out to you?

He probably didn't feel connected on so many levels the way you do.

But...go ahead and re-contact.
An awkward humbling embarrassing experience may be just the thing you need to get your head out of the clouds and bring you back down to reality.[/quote]

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