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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this would only work in your favor if the terms of the contract and the violations were provable. From having dealt with PD, I don’t think his inevitable future violations would be something you could ever prove to his satisfaction. He would find a loophole or victimhood. There is no reason that a contract would change the narc pattern of circular conversations or deny, attack, reverse victim and offender (DARVO).

You know that the divorce will be difficult and that he will contest your tellings of the truth. I’m sorry for that. Best to move on with it. Don’t give him further ammunition to use against you, because any personal information that a severely PD person has only becomes ammunition. In fact, I’m almost wondering if a contract spelling out the things you find abusive gives him license to be abusive in novel ways and then claim that those behaviors are ok.

tl;dr: Say as little as possible to your husband from now forward because he can and will use it against you. Start the process of moving on.[/quote]

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