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[quote=Anonymous]I'm gonna give a big thumbs DOWN for popular, non-evidence based parenting books like Lansbury and Markham. Those approaches do not give you what you need, which is a clear structure of positive behavioral incentives. If you're going to read a book, have it be Kazdin's Defiant Child. "Peaceful parenting" and whatnot are bad advice, because they mix trying to connect with your child with the actual process of disciplining. That leads to weak discipline, which leads to the parent getting more frustrated, which leads to more attention to bad behavior, which escalates the bad behavior.[/quote]
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