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Reply to "Newly Divorced -- Is it Okay to Reach out to Divorced Friends for a Social Assist?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your approach feels desperate so I’d take things slow.[/quote] What approach do you suggest instead? The separation and divorce process took almost three years, during which time I made the family my priority. Absolutely no dating and very little socializing during that time. [/quote] Calm down. You will find another DH. Your fear of being alone will make you select men who are poor choices though. You just divorced. Now the hard part really starts for your kids and you. Give yourself and your kids a year at least to adjust to the real new normal. Don’t hang out with you divorced friends all the time bc you fear being lonely and then having time to think. Be lonely. Grieve the loss. That’s not what we going on the last 3 years. You were just getting through. It’s different now. [/quote]
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