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[quote=Anonymous]I'm confused. Do you work?

It sounds like you don't work. So your DH doesn't wake up in the middle of the night at all (which is generally a normal marital outcome, if only one parent is working - because his need for mental wherewithal is more than yours).  But he wakes up at 4am, goes to work, comes home in the afternoon and immediately gives you a break from the baby, and then he makes dinner every second day? And it sounds like is doing other stuff around the house until he goes to bed?

That sounds like a pretty amazing spouse.  He's tired too. It sounds like he's doing as much, if not more than you, in a given day. I'm not sure what you want him to do to be better?  It also sounds like his anger with you is mostly in response to your anger at him, and that he's otherwise putting on a pretty good happy face for this stage.

Yes, new baby time sucks. But it sounds like your anger needs to be deflected away from your husband and just channeled into the "this too shall pass" mantra.  [/quote]

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