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[quote=Anonymous]I am so livid while reading this that I don’t even know if I can write.

Don’t you know ANYTHING about abused children, aoP?!?!?  What the f is wrong with you???

Abused children don’t have to SEEM depressed to you.  Can you not imagine that the child may feel a demand to appear down for everyone else’s sake?!

Look at her horrible mother.  She sees that the boy is touching the daughter without her daughter’s consent and hse “lets them work it out”, which means, expects the girl to give in and notbother her.  She lets her son take whatever he wants.

The daughter has learned from this.  Of COURSE she is not going to tell her mother!!!  Her job is to keep the peace, as you have seen.  She cannot advocate for herself.

Very likely, if you tell the mom that you think something may be off, the mom is going to get defensive and angrily confront the child and ask her if her brother has ever hurt her.  The daughter will NEVER say he did, even if he hurt her that morning.  She has learned that she must keep the peace and that her brother gets what he wants and she sees and fears her mother’s upset and doesn’t want to make a big deal or draw attention to herself.

The best you can do with your friend is make undeniable observations.  “I see that Joe keeps overpowering Mary physically.” “I see that Mary never kisses Joe back or jump on him like he jumps on her.” “I see Mary flinch when Joe jumped on her right now.”

Expect to lose this friendship.  Do what you can.  [/quote]

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