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Reply to "husband and I really in a tough spot"
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[quote=Anonymous]Call his bluff. Find a lower pressure/pay job you want and beginning making the adjustments necessary to afford the paycut. Either, he will will step up and fill the gap or he won't and you all will just have to make do with less. Right now, he has no incentive to step up because you are not stepping back. If he wants the lifestyle afforded by the high-pressure/pay job, and you stop providing it, he will figure out a way to make it happen. Of course, if it turns out that you are the one that really wants the lifestyle and he does not care, then you may need to re-evaluate whether he is really the problem and what exactly is keeping you trapped. [/quote]
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