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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DP here. My DH is sole breadwinner and I am SAHM with chronic illness.  He has taken care of me, our two kids, and the house for more than 6-7 years. He helped me to get help for my condition and after a long time, I have become somewhat functional again. Yes, we outsource a lot of work and I was able to at least direct the people we hired to help out but it was not a great situation.  [b]I am so thankful to my DH[/b] for not losing his patience with me and being the most compassionate person.  I sympathize with your situation and I know it is tough.  The only path forward is to  outsource as much as you can and get a lot of insurance for both of you.  Hopefully, he will recover somewhat and things will become better. [/quote]

This is why your situation is nothing like the OP.

How would your DH react if you told him hiring cleaners was NBD and he wasn’t even the one who was home to talk to the handyman and babysitters he hired? Would he still be compassionate with you if you said all the things he did to help you weren’t that hard and didn’t take much time? [/quote]

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