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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here I get that it may seem spiteful to tell the offending partners spouse about the affair, but I keep coming back to putting myself in the position if I were the unaware spouse, I would want to know.[/quote] But consider the possibility the wife DOES know. Maybe she found out much sooner and they’re working through it. You coming in brings it all up again. Maybe it was a hall pass situation. Some people have a DADT policy and she doesn’t want to know. You simply can’t invest your precious mental and emotional energy in someone else’s marriage when yours and yourself require all you’ve got. Really, it’s for your own good: focus on your own house. Step one if you plan to stay is her finding a new job without her affair partner working there. [/quote]
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