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[quote=Anonymous]You've accepted what you can't do: prevent grown adults from moving anywhere they please. Here's what you CAN do: 1) Don't give your keys; if you do, make it crystal clear they are for emergencies only. If they are used in a non-emergency, take the keys away and/or change the locks. 2) Make it clear that you will enjoy seeing them more, but it needs to be scheduled with ample lead time. 3) Make it clear that if they show up unannounced, you aren't necessarily going to drop everything for them, or even invite them in. They need to call, every time, unless there is an emergency. Keep it cheerful and firm. If they try to doorstep you, don't invite them in unless you actively want to. If they try to make too many plans, make it clear that you love seeing them, but you're not going to drop your plans and you're not going to be giving up your free time/down time. [/quote]
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