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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I settled. My in laws are awful emotionally abusive people. It has killed my self esteem. My husband takes their side. My friends and family think I could do better. My marriage is ok and I’m happy about 40% of the time. I don’t know if I can even do better so why would I mess up my stability? [/quote] Sure...but at least one half of all couples could say that they could "do better" than their spouse. The question is...could you BE better TO your spouse? If your honest answer is "no" then go ahead and get out. If it's "well, yes...I could be a better spouse to him" then do that and see if it follows that he stops taking "their" side. [/quote]
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